After 3 months separation, the care home has opened to visitors under strict guidance. I have had a few visits now and it has been lovely to be able to see my Mum in person.
The visit lasts half an hour. I have my temperature checked, sprayed all over with disinfectant and provided gloves and mask to wear. I also have to read and sign a disclosure confirming I am not experiencing any of the Covid-19 symptoms amongst other things.
I’m not convinced that Mum recognises me especially wearing a mask but she seems comfortable in my company. It is all rather strange as I can’t give her a hug or hold her hand as we need to stick to the social distance rules. As conversation is difficult, I have been playing her the traditional Irish music that she enjoys. I hope it won’t be too long before I can hold her hand and take her for a walk around the garden.
Living In The Moment With Dementia 